There is no better way to connect with your partner than to use your senses. Your senses are a sort of primitive way of feeling that bond with your special person. Sometimes, we need to try new things with our partners to strengthen our bond, and essential oils are one of those things that we can try.
According to research, people use smell, on an unconscious level, to identify a ‘mate’ to partner up with. Now, although this sounds extremely archaic, there is simply nothing better than being able to share a deep connection with your loved one through essential oils.
Essential oils can be used in many different ways, and whether you are new in your essential oil journey or whether you have been a fan for years, you will surely be able to take a few tips from here for your next romantic evening.
Love Potion:
Essential oils can be used in various ways. You can either add a few drops into a diffuser (which is great for setting a mood), or you can dilute them and add them to a carrier oil to rub into your skin (massage, anyone?) There are also other ways in which to use essential oils, but for the sake of keeping relevant to this post, we will stick to the two ways mentioned above.
Almost like a love potion, there are various blends of essential oils that you and your partner can use to create a romantic space and simply be with one another. It is true that every person has their own unique preference for smells and the types of smells that can aid in a romantic experience; however, there are a few universal blends of essential oils that are known to aid in that deep connection we were talking about earlier.
The main essential oils that can be used to create your love potion are:
Lavender
Lavender essential oil is a very popular choice in general. It is mainly known to elicit a calm atmosphere; however, many do not know that it has a seductive side to it, too. Did you know that Cleopatra used Lavender essential oil to lure men in?
Lavender blends perfectly with Ylang-ylang and Patchouli essential oils. So, if you’re after an uplifting time with your partner, try a Lavender blend.
Ylang-Ylang
This exotic yet floral scent is used in Indonesia when newlyweds go off to spend their first night together. The essential oil is thrown over the bed and is said to bring up sparks of sensuality. Ylang-ylang blends beautifully with Sandalwood and Lavender.
Sandalwood
This essential oil has always been known as being the gateway to divinity and captor of the senses. It is an extremely flexible essential oil and mixes superbly with Ylang-ylang and Patchouli essential oils.
Rose Essential Oil
Throughout time, roses have been the symbol of love and romance, so it is no wonder that Rose essential oil belongs in our list of essential oils. This sweet fragrance will surely add wonders to your night of romance and can be mixed elegantly with Sandalwood and Ylang-ylang.
Vanilla Essential Oil
If you are searching for a more comforting experience, then Vanilla Absolute is a great essential oil to try. The best thing about this essential oil is that it can be used on its own or comfortably with Rose and Patchouli essential oils. It is a fragrance that is welcoming to all.
Jasmine Essential Oil
You may not know this, but Jasmine is also symbolic of love and fidelity. It is widely known across many cultures and is also linked with beauty and hope. So, if you are in need of an evening where you and your loved one can rekindle your flame, try adding some jasmine essential oil, along with either Ylang-ylang or Sandalwood essential oils.
Patchouli
In this rat race of a world we find ourselves living in, it is easy to disconnect from your loved one. Life is busy, and if we don’t create intentional time for one another, we can easily begin to feel distant and out of touch. Patchouli essential oil is one of those that is harmonising and grounding and is the perfect ingredient to create a relaxing and passionate space for you and your loved one. Patchouli blends easily with Rose Absolute and Sandalwood.
Now is the time to get creative and stimulate your senses by creating a sensual yet loving environment with these many different essential oil blends. Don’t forget to use safe practices when using essential oils, this means diluting them with a carrier oil and ensuring your oil comes from a reputable source. See Buckley and Phillips Aromatics for more.
